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You know the insane email a bride sent out to her bridesmaids that we told you about last week? The one that had about a million “if A, then you can’t be my bridesmaid … if B, then you can’t be my bridesmaid”? Well, it inspired a blogger at XO Jane to break down reasons why she might not theoretically agree to be a bridesmaid, and it’s pretty funny.

She makes a lot of great points—but since it feels like we’ve been hating on bridesmaid-abusing brides a lot lately, we thought we’d direct you to this post of ours from a ways back, that offers up some advice for those ‘maids who be might driving you crazy.

It all evens out in the end, people.