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THE MYTH ABOUT WEDDING-NIGHT SEX

Posted by Carrie Denny on 5/21/2013 at 1:04PM | No Comments

The Myth About Wedding-Night Sex

Lillian Rose

It’s all a part of the fairy-tale wedding dream: Girl meets boy, boy proposes to girl, girl and boy get married on the perfect day, with the perfect wedding, and that night they have perfect, magical, life-altering husband-and-wife sex before riding off into the sunset and living happily ever after.

Except that’s not what really happens—well, at least not the sex part. Because the thing is, you’re tired. Really tired. And maybe his groomsmen handed him one too many shots, and you have a headache from your updo, and you’ve both been awake for 18 hours straight, talking and crying and dancing and laughing, and everyone you know, including your grandparents, is sleeping on your hotel floor, right next door.

Point is, before the two of you close the door behind you at the end of your Big Day, we wanted you to know: If this particular aspect of your fairy tale is less than, well, magical, you’re not alone. Here, some Philly brides spill their stories on this little myth—and how it actually tends to go (or not go) down.
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PHOTOS: HOW TO STYLE YOUR GROOM FOR YOUR NAUTICAL SUMMER WEDDING

Maritime Man: Steer your groom toward nautical style for a summer-perfect classic look.

Posted by Carrie Denny on 5/20/2013 at 6:37PM | No Comments

Ralph Lauren Purple Label navy double-breasted wool gabardine suit, dress shirt and tie, ralphlauren.com.
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HOW TO BREAK DOWN YOUR WEDDING BUDGET

Here's how much to spend, and on what, according to an expert.

Posted by Carrie Denny on 5/16/2013 at 4:26PM | No Comments

How to Break Down Your Wedding Budget

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We asked planner Susan Norcross of South Jersey’s Two Rings One Circus to show us how you can have a fabulous wedding on any budget.

BUDGET: $20,000

  • Venue/Catering >> $10,000: Get creative and pick a place where you can control the catering, like a park or Philadelphia’s Magic Gardens. Make it a cocktail party with hors d’oeuvres, mini desserts and a limited open bar.
  • Photography >> $2,000: Limit the number of hours your photog is there, or look into using an assistant or photography student. (Just be sure you get to see work examples first.)
  • Flowers & Decor >> $2,000: Carry a bouquet of simple baby’s breath or one single stem, like a lily. Order flowers from an online wholesaler and DIY your centerpieces—or forgo flowers altogether and use candles instead.
  • Invites >> $400 to $1,000: Compare and contrast online vendors; great deals are easily had.
  • Favors & Extras >> $400 to $1,000: Make a donation to a foundation that means something to you both in honor of your guests, or go for something simple and inexpensive, like custom-labeled matchbooks or CDs of your favorite music.

BUDGET: $50,000

  • Venue/Catering >> $25,000: Look at hotel ballrooms and manors and estates; try a dual entrée offering everyone both salmon and chicken.
  • Photography >> $5,000: Opt for a second shooter, to make sure every perspective of your Big Day is captured.
  • Flowers & Decor >> $5,000: Work with your florist to use in-season flowers to get the most bang for your buck, and for help steering clear of budget-eating blooms like peonies.
  • Invites >> $1,000 to $2,500: Look for customizable ready-made templates, and stick to digital printing or thermography, which will save you money over more expensive methods like letterpress or engraving.
  • Favors & Extras >> $1,000 to $2,500: Go for an edible favor or one that doubles as an escort card. Or do something fun for your guests, like a photo booth; they can keep their pictures as favors.

BUDGET: $80,000

  • Venue/Catering >> $40,000: Choose a raws pace,then have an event designer and lighting expert totally customize it for you. With food, add in extras where you can—a dessert and cordial lounge, a candy bar, a visit from a late-night cupcake or food truck.
  • Photography >> $8,000: Go for a full package that includes an engagement shoot and even a post-wedding session, which many couples do in full wedding-day regalia without the stress and time constraints of the actual day.
  • Flowers & Decor >> $8,000: Add pearls or crystals to your arrangements, use a real-flower aisle runner, and go all-out with something like floral centerpieces suspended from the ceilings.
  • Invites >> $1,600 to $4,000: Work with a custom stationer to design invitations from scratch, and ask about options like printing on Lucite, wood or laser-cut metal, or about presenting the invites in something like a silk box instead of an envelope.
  • Favors & Extras >> $1,600 to $4,000: Send each guest home with a miniature replica of your wedding cake.

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    YING-LEE & TIM ON THE MOSHULU

    Get inspired by this gorgeous local celebration ...

    Posted by Carrie Denny on 5/10/2013 at 4:24PM | 1 Comment

    This week, from the spring/summer 2013 issue of Philadelphia Wedding, we bring you the beautiful wedding of Ying-Lee and Tim Snyder aboard the Moshulu in Philadelphia … Enjoy!

     

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    STEPHANIE & JON AT THE MERION CRICKET CLUB

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    Posted by Carrie Denny on 5/3/2013 at 4:24PM | No Comments

    Stephanie & Jon at The Merion Cricket Club This week, from the spring/summer 2013 issue of Philadelphia Wedding, we bring you the beautiful wedding of Stephanie and Jon Hughes at the Merion Cricket Club in Haverford … Enjoy!

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    ASK THE EXPERT: HOW MANY HOTEL ROOMS SHOULD WE BLOCK FOR OUR WEDDING’S OUT-OF-TOWN GUESTS?

    Posted by Carrie Denny on 5/1/2013 at 5:14PM | No Comments

    ASK THE EXPERT: How Many Hotel Rooms Should We Block For Our Wedding's Out-of-Town Guests?

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    Q: We’re planning to block hotel rooms for our guests and provide the information on our invitations—but how do we figure out how many rooms to reserve without our final guest count?
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    HONEYMOON DESTINATION: PUNTA CANA

    Honeymoon here in the Dominican Republic for a post-nuptial getaway filled with Latin culture and gorgeous beaches.

    Posted by Carrie Denny on 4/30/2013 at 11:14AM | No Comments

    HONEYMOON DESTINATION: Punta Cana

    The Barceló Bávaro Beach Resort pool. All photos in this post courtesy of the resort.

    Beach connoisseurs, this one’s for you. Sure, Punta Cana is home to several luxe resorts willing to cater to a guest’s every whim, but nothing man-made can rival what this spot was God-given: postcard-perfect Caribbean-fantasy beaches with flour-soft white sand, turquoise water, year round sun and a warm ocean breeze. Europeans have long known the beaches here are tops and the resorts more reasonably priced than elsewhere (and have been coming in droves since the airport was built in 1984), but Americans have caught on in recent years. According to a 2012 report from Expedia, Punta Cana is now one of the top five most frequented international destinations for U.S. travelers—lots of them honeymooners looking for the no-hassle frills of the area’s many upscale all-inclusives. Among the best stretches of sand here is Bávaro Beach, a mile-long expanse that sits behind an offshore reef, leaving waters calm, warm and pool-like. The latest upgrade to the Bávaro scene is the Barceló Bávaro Beach Resort, a premium, quiet, adults-only corner of the larger Barceló Bávaro Palace Deluxe.
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    AMY & HAAVARD AT THE JOHN JAMES AUDUBON CENTER

    Get inspired by this gorgeous local celebration ...

    Posted by Carrie Denny on 4/26/2013 at 3:00PM | No Comments

    Amy & Haavard at the John James Audubon Center This week, from our spring/summer 2013 issue of Philadelphia Wedding, we bring you the beautiful spring nuptials of Amy and Haavard Boehmer at the John James Audubon Center at Mill Grove … Enjoy!

     

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    PHOTOS: GOWN, VENUE, BRIDESMAID DRESS, FLOWER AND CAKE IDEAS FOR A PHILADELPHIA GARDEN PARTY WEDDING

    Posted by Carrie Denny on 4/25/2013 at 12:48PM | No Comments

    PHOTOS: Gown, Venue, Bridesmaid Dress, Flower and Cake IDeas For a Philadelphia Garden Party Wedding

    Below, find ideas for a gorgeous garden party wedding in the Philadelphia area.

    Not that we think you should put your wedding in a box, of course. But chances are you at least have a feeling when it comes to your Big Day: Will it be a swanky formal affair in a candlelit room with a marble rotunda? An airy soiree where your guests sip cool drinks from mason jars with fields of wildflower-dotted wheat in the background and cotton-candy clouds overhead? Whatever your vision for your wedding day, we’re here to help you plan it. In the following pages, you’ll find ideas for five different types of weddings—not just for gorgeous venues in the Philadelphia area, but for your flowers, gown, cake and bridesmaids’ dresses, all from local vendors and shops. Just find the one that feels like you, and you’re on your way.

    {This article originally appeared in the Spring/Summer 2013 issue of Philadelphia Wedding.}

    Click here for PART ONE: City Ballroom.
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    SEAN & ERIN AT THE UNION LEAGUE

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    Posted by Carrie Denny on 4/12/2013 at 10:01AM | No Comments

    Sean & Erin at The Union League Taking a look back at one of our faves from our last fall/winter issue: This week, we bring you the beautiful wedding of Sean and Erin Berry at The Union League of Philadelphia … Enjoy!

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