WHAT DO GAP ADS REALLY SAY ABOUT GAY LOVE?

If only we could accept something without seeing dollar signs. By Jessica Goldschmidt

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/16/2012 at 11:28AM | No Comments

Gap has a new ad campaign. It’s for t-shirts, and (like most ad campaigns) it’s telling you what to be. Be you, be true, be cool, be somebody with a little cash to spend and the basic human need to accrue stuff, thereby affirming your own existence. I’m sure Gap has placed these posters and billboards at hundreds of thousands of strategic points across our great nation, and that they all feature a wide variety of luminous, fresh-faced folks of various racial backgrounds (if not waist measurements) selling the same shirts in the same ways. But I’ve only seen two, and the two I saw today in the Walnut/Locust SEPTA station seemed to me, in many ways, unique.

The ads are side by side, and both have the same caption: “Be one.” The photo on the right is of a handsome white man nuzzling the face of a beautiful Asian-looking woman, their heads snuggled together inside the neck of a single t-shirt; the picture on the left is of two equally beautiful white men similarly sharing one t-shirt, their cheeks pressed tight together, their lips parted slightly.

I spent about 20 minutes—the rest of the train ride and the whole walk home—trying to figure out when the last time was that I’d seen a mainstream advertisement so prominently feature a homosexual relationship. I came up with nothing. Yet it’s there, it’s all over Walnut/Locust, you can see for yourself: Gap has put two beautiful fellows in a shirt together on a poster in our city, in front of Ben Franklin and everybody, and declared them one. And I am, overall elated. I am also a bit depressed.

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OBAMA TALKS MARRIAGE ON THE VIEW

The president corrects Elisabeth Hasselbeck about his stance on DOMA

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/16/2012 at 8:34AM | No Comments

When Elisabeth Hasselbeck suggested that President Obama’s stance on gay marriage is similar to that of Mitt Romney’s on The View yesterday, Obama was quick to point out that he doesn’t support DOMA – as Romney does – which would assert federal discrimination over state’s rights. And in states that have legalized same-sex marriage, he says the laws would become void – something he spoke out about just last week.

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STRAIGHT PEOPLE: STAND UP FOR LGBT FRIENDS

A message about gay rights and marriage from Chelsea Handler

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/16/2012 at 8:21AM | No Comments

Courtesy of Chelsea Lately

I read a quote in the Los Angeles Times right after President Obama’s marriage equality statement that made my blood boil. One of the big right-wing groups said the president’s stance will lead to “fatherless and motherless homes.”

OK – I admit the boiling-point of my blood may be well below the national average – but who are they kidding?

I’ve never been more proud of my LGBT friends and the beautiful families they’re raising – and I think it’s time we all do what we can to get them equal rights already.

The president’s announcement has inspired and energized a lot of people, and with marriage campaigns heating up in states across the country, I asked my friends at HRC if I could set up a matching gift challenge. If you donate, I’ll donate. Together we’ll make history.

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ROMNEY WRONG ON ADOPTION

The GOP frontrunner better get his facts straight

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/16/2012 at 8:11AM | No Comments

In an interview recently during his campaign tour, GOP candidate for president Mitt Romney asserted that “gay adoption is legal in all of the states but one.” But according to the HRC, Romney is having a little trouble with the facts.

In reality, same-sex couples are banned from adopting in states including Kentucky, Michigan, Mississippi, Nebraska, North Carolina, Ohio and Utah. And for couples who are interested in second-parent adoptions, that’s illegal in 26 states in the country, while join adoption is illegal in 18 states and Washington D.C.

“Mitt Romney’s remarks last week regarding same-sex adoption are wrong and, worse, they trivialize the very real and persistent obstacles qualified LGBT individuals and couples face in adopting and starting families,” says HRC Vice President of Communications Fred Sainz. “Every year, there are hundreds of thousands of kids who desperately need their forever family. LGBT individuals and families are perfectly qualified to provide that loving home. Leading medical, mental health and child welfare organizations have said time and again that sexual orientation and gender identity have absolutely nothing to do with the ability to be a parent to a child in need of a loving home. Governor Romney should clarify his muddled position and embrace adoption by loving and committed gay and lesbian parents.”

Worse, even in states that allow LGBT people to adopt, many still face discrimination. In fact, in 29 states, there’s no protection against discrimination based on sexual orientation (in 34 states there’s no protection for gender identity), including Pennsylvania.

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PHILLY PRIDE GRAND MARSHALL ANNOUNCED

We have the details about next month's parade and party on Penn's Landing

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/15/2012 at 12:21PM | No Comments

Courtesy of the Office of Blondell Reynolds Brown

With Philly Pride just around the corner (June 10), Councilwoman Blondell Reynolds Brown will serve as the “Friend of Pride” Grand Marshal during the 2012 PrideDay Parade and Festival. Brown has been an advocate at City Hall for the LGBT community, having sponsored the Equal Benefits Bill that requires city contractors to offer domestic partnership benefits to same-sex couples. She was also the first elected official in the city to create her own “It Gets Better” video and helped work to eradicate gender identification stickers on SEPTA transit passes just this year.

She’ll be joined during the parade (the theme is “pride links us together”) by Grand Marshals Brian Sims, who will soon become Pennsylvania’s first openly gay state legislator, music group BETTY, and Youth Grand Marshals Azeem Hill and Plantazia Washington.

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HIP-HOP ARTIST COMES OUT

Y-Love wants the world to know he's gay

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/15/2012 at 10:52AM | No Comments

Courtesy of Y-Love

“Negative’s relative and critics are minimal,” raps Y-Love – also known at Yitz Jordan – a Hassidic hip-hop artist who taps into a mix of English, Arabic, Hebrew and Latin in his rhymes. The 34-year-old from East Baltimore has enjoyed a unique experience growing up with a Puerto Rican mother and Ethiopian father. He eventually converted to Judaism, a religion that has fueled many of his lyrics for the past few years.

He’s recently released a new single, “Focus on the Flair.” But this week he also has another message for the world: “I’m gay.”

“I’ve never been conflicted about my sexuality,” Jordan tells Out. “Any conflicts that have come up in my life have come up because of other people’s homophobia. I’ve always known when to be in the closet and when not to.”

The musician admits that current events have dictated his decision to come clean about his personal life. “I want mine to be the last generation of LGBT Americans that remembers what a closet is,” he says in a press statement. “I want kids in 20 years to sit annoyed through LGBT history class to learn about that long ago time ‘when gay people used to have to lie,’ much like segregation is a far-off time to many of today’s middle-class black youth.”

Check out his latest video (yep, that’s him in drag):

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JAY-Z ON GAY MARRIAGE

The rap star told CNN that he's on board with Obama

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/15/2012 at 10:16AM | No Comments

As hip-hop legend Jay-Z announced a live two-day Philly music festival for Labor Day weekend on the steps of the Art Museum yesterday, he also took time to talk about same-sex marriage and President Obama – and why discriminating against LGBT people in America is no different from racism.

“I’ve always thought it as something that was still … holding the country back,” the rapper said. “What people do in their own homes is their business and you can choose to love whoever you love.”

We’d also like to know if Mayor Nutter serenaded the hip-hop mogul with “Rapper’s Delight.”

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LIFE, DEATH AND BEING GAY IN IRAN

How do you save four men sentenced to hanging for sodomy?

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/15/2012 at 10:02AM | 3 Comments

Photo by Think Stock

The town of Choram is about as remote as it gets. Photos from the rural community in the Kohgiluyeh Province of Iran show mostly a barren, rocky landscape with a few roads leading through the largely undeveloped region. One could scarcely imagine that much goes on there. But Pink News reports this week that four men’s lives are about to change after a harsh verdict came down in the local court. Each has been sentenced to death for accusations of sodomy. And while Choram and these men may seem like a world away – and in many cases they are – their stories reverberate though the LGBT community everywhere today.

Javid Akbari, Saadat Arefi, Vahid Akbari and Houshmand Akbari were all found guilty of the crime, according to the country’s strict Shari’a law. They are scheduled to be hanged as soon as the next few days – even though being gay is not technically a crime as far as Iran’s criminal law is concerned. But the Human Rights Activist News Agency says that in recent months, same-sex acts have been aggressively monitored in small towns like this one throughout Iran. Several other men accused of the same crimes have been put to death in the past five months.

It’s estimated that in Iran, more than 4,000 gay men and lesbians have been executed since the Ayatollahs came into power in the late 70s, driving what had been a free-thinking society and its leaders into hiding, and in some cases, to other countries throughout Europe and into the U.S.

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IS OBAMA THE FIRST GAY PRESIDENT?

Andrew Sullivan hails the commander-in-chief in a new essay on the cover of Newsweek

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/14/2012 at 11:37AM | 1 Comment

He’s biracial. He grew up in a broken home. And he worked his way through an ivy league education. These are some of the reasons gay writer Andrew Sullivan has coined Barack Obama as America’s “first gay president” in a new cover story essay in Newsweek. Borrowing from an essay Toni Morrison had written in the late 90s about Bill Clinton – calling him the first “black president” – the comparison stops there, though the irony isn’t lost on the fact that Obama is truly America’s first black president. And though Sullivan has been a critic of President Obama ever since he first took office, many of the latest LGBT-friendly initiatives coming from his administration seem to have softened the gay blogger.

“When you step back a little and assess the record of Obama on gay rights, you see, in fact, that this was not an aberration. It was an inevitable culmination of three years of work,” writes Sullivan. “He did this the way he always does: leading from behind and playing the long game.”

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PHILLY TIP FROM SCOTT BARNES

He gives us the scoop on his favorite must-see destination in the city

Posted by Natalie Hope McDonald on 5/14/2012 at 11:09AM | No Comments

Scott Barnes is the director of marketing for Stephen Starr Events. Scott has been working both in Philly and New York handling many same-sex marriage events. Recently, he sat down with Uwishunu to talk about one of his favorite destinations in the city.

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